] ASBURY PARK -- As she watched her niece graduate from ] kindergarten yesterday, Sherri Stanard's pride turned to ] shock and anger when a vice principal told the children ] to stand up to demonstrate that he believed one-third of ] a kindergarten class would not make it through high ] school because of alcohol, drugs or pregnancy. ] "He asked the kids to stand up, and he told us to take a ] good look at these kids because a third of them will not ] graduate from high school or make it to high school ] because they will be too busy drugging, drinking or ] getting pregnant," said Stanard, 42, of Neptune. Stanard ] said she also has a niece in first grade at the Bangs ] Avenue Elementary School, where the vice principal, Paul ] J. Banik Jr., has worked for three decades. ] Howard Mednick, the school's principal for the past two ] years, said that the context of Stanard's account was ] basically correct, but that Banik did tell the audience ] he was not talking about the children standing up. Hahaha.. Asbury Park, where the truth hurts. Warning hits sour note at Asbury Park kindergarten graduation |