] Many will attest that the API to the WOMEN platform is
] somewhat obscure, contradictory and poorly documented.
] However, if you talk to any randomly selected groups of
] men, you will discover that the problems they face
] (whether in Pickup or Relationship states) are
] fundamentally the same. If there's a common set of
] problems, shouldn't there be a common set of solutions?
] Moreover, doesn't it bother you that programming geeks,
] who advocate code reusability and open-sourcing have not
] come up with reusable successful solutions for commonly
] occurring problems and have not documented them?

When your geekiness has gone too far...

Dating Design Patterns