] Limerence has certain basic components: ] ] - intrusive thinking about the object of your ] passionate desire (the limerent object or 'LO'), ] who is a possible sexual partner ] ] - acute longing for reciprocation ] ] - dependency of mood on LO's actions or, more ] accurately, your interpretation of LO's actions ] with respect to the probability of reciprocation ] ] - inability to react limerently to more than one ] person at a time ] ] - some fleeting and transient relief from unrequited ] limerent passion through vivid imagination of action ] by LO that means reciprocation ] ] - acute sensitivity to any act or thought or condition ] that can be interpreted favorably, and extraordinary ] ability to devise or invent "reasonable" explanations ] for why the neutrality that the disinterested observer ] might see is in fact a sign of hidden passion in the LO ] ] - buoyancy (a feeling of walking on air) when ] reciprocation seems evident ] ] - a general intensity of feeling that leaves other ] concerns in the background Good definitions and FAQ on "limerence", a state in which I occasionally find myself. |