The ex-husband says it was the "most intense pain" he's ever experienced.

Well yeah, having it come out in court that the hot wife thinks the 14 year old she's nailing is better than you are in bed kinda stings.

At the same time, he's right, if she'd been a guy nailing his 14 year old firls, he'd be in jail for a very long time. Now to explain one of the differences between guys and girls. At 14, guys will fuck anything they can get near. The apple pie scene in American Pie? Not too far off the mark. EVERYONE knows this, so when some kid gets lucky with the hot blonde teacher? He's getting high fives. At least until some busybody parent gets into the act.

At 14, boys are trolling the internet for porn already. Girls, for the most part, aren't. Double standard? No. Very different standards for very different situations. Put Brad Pitt in front if a high school freshman class, drop trou, and ask the girls if anyone wants to go for a ride, the girls might think about it but they wouldn't do it. If Debra LaFave did the same thing in front of her former class, it wouldn't be a line to get at her, it'd be more like army ants swarming.