Decius wrote: ] ] We should recognise what a major transition this is. ] ] 'Coupling' and 'uncoupling' provide a more ] ] accurate description of the arena of personal life now ] ] than do 'marriage and the family'. A more ] ] important question for us than 'are you married?' is 'how ] ] good is your relationship?' ] ] Some readings about globalization today eventually lead me to ] this short essay, which talks about the dynamic nature of the ] concept of marriage. It puts all the recent debate about gay ] marriage in an overall context. I found it interesting for ] other reasons as well as I've been sort of grappling ] uncomfortably with the realization that a lot of people my age ] are now married and I'm not a kid anymore. Quick Decius, dye the gray out of your hair, buy a 'vette or my personal favorite, a Mercedes SLK, and start dating 20 somethings. Oh wait... My girlfriends dad is always kidding his wife. He says when she truns 50 he's going to trade her in for a pair of 25s. RE: An interesting discussion of the state of Marriage... |