] I love my boyfriend fiercely, and we're engaged to be
] married this December, but I am worried because
] practically everyone I know hates him. (And HE wants
] nothing to do with my friends.) They all feel he's
] controlling and whiny and that he oftentimes makes me
] feel bad for things that are not my fault, though he
] swears this isn't his intention. We've had long drawn-out
] discussions and fights about this. Other than that, he's
] a deeply committed, loving, compassionate boyfriend.

Yes, I like gossip and yes, I couldn't stop myself from being the first to post in the erroneous "Home and Garden" section. Something makes me think that heading is just Decius' little joke.

However, enjoy reading the advice column. It has a lot to do with manners...which you use in your home...and garden(?).